Scout, why the “Big”? I’m an increasingly scrawny old fellow.
Havelock Ellis is a long dead Limey who’s primary life’s work proves way less than interesting to most folks including me, being a physician and psychologist who studied sexual deviancy. But he was wise and had a cleverly humorous side and left us with some right-on quotes. See http://www.quotationspage.com/quotes/Havelock_Ellis/